I have to list all the things that I did wrong as a teenager, first of all, this blog would be about a week-long and second of all the cops probably show at my door an hour later. But luckily for you, since nobody wants to hear about my specially degenerated years and long overdue puberty. I gonna talk about life-changing seven things never forget in life. that I love to tell 13year old me to shut up and listen. I wish I remember these seven things as a teenager.
By the way, these seven thing doesn’t just apply to if you are a teenager, this applies to anyone in life because these are the life lessons that I would argue are the most important lesson to live a happy healthy life full of unicorns and rainbows.
1. Your Problems Don’t Matter As Much As You Think.
I know it seems like the end of the world that Alice isn’t talking to you anymore in high school but trust me you will get over it and life does go on and you can still move on and live a happy and healthy life. Because the truth is everybody experiences their problem, you feel the pain, you feel the sadness, you feel all that and it seems so real, it seems like it taking over the world but the cool thing is that the time fills all wounds so, no matter how drastic how devastated you are now. Trust me that you would get over it and don’t overreact to this problem because If you think about it the problem is not that important and if it is then deal with it like a pro.
2. Treat The Janitor Like The CEO.
Always treat the janitor same as you treat the CEO of a company. what I mean by that?. you should treat everyone with respect doesn’t matter if he’s a homeless person Donald or Elon musk. Truth is every single one of us is the same as we all people we all struggling to get through life we all have problems, we all have things that we are dealing with. So, the sooner you start to treat everyone with respect. I know it very easy and sound perfect to make fun of people with your friends and feel like you are better than other people but, the truth is life is hard and you can add negativity, sadness to the world or you can choose to add positivity to the world.
My advice to you and all thirteen-year kids out there ‘treat everyone like you want them to treat you’. Your life would be so much better.
3. Slow Down And Think Things Through.
The problem a lot of people have especially with smartphones and instant gratification society that our society has become clueless. People are such in a hurry to get things done, to get that promotion to, get that job or finish high school or finish college Right! that they don’t even stop to slow down and enjoy the time they have now. I can still remember like it was yesterday, you know playing cops and thief with my neighbourhood friends. that time was so precious and so meaningful to me.
the thing is guys time passes, either way, you want to take time and slow down and enjoy the present moment which is a lot harder to doing so.
So, if you are a teenager right now or in your 20’s, 30’s, 50’s whatever, my advice is to slow down take time and enjoy the present moment
and start giving gratitude because the truth is if you wake up healthy in the morning you already living someone else’s dream life.
4. Realize That Nobody Cares, And If They Do, You Shouldn’t Care That They Care.
Got a new car? Nobody cares. You’ll get some gawkers for a couple of weeks—they don’t care. They’re curious. Three weeks in it’ll be just another shiny blob among all the thousands of others crawling down the freeway and sitting in garages and driveways up and down your street. People will care about your car just as much as you care about all of those. Got a new gewgaw? New wardrobe? Went to a swanky restaurant? Exotic vacation? Nobody cares. Life-changing things Don’t based on people’s caring, because they won’t. And if they do, they either want your stuff or hate you for it. remember these things.
5. Realize Loneliness Helps You Face The Truth.
Being in the constant company of others, although comforting sometimes, can often serve as a distraction when we need to face the reality of a situation.
Solitude cuts straight to the chase and forces you to deal with the problem at hand. See it as a blessing that can serve as a catalyst to set things right!
6. Be Aware That You Have More Control Than You Think.
Typically, when we see ourselves as being lost or lonely, it gives us an excuse to view everything we come in contact with a negative light. It lends itself to putting ourselves in the victim mode when the truth of the matter is that you choose your attitude in every situation.
No one can force a feeling upon you! It is YOU who has the ultimate say as to how you choose to react.
7. Always Talk To People Who Are More Experienced Than You.
When you are entering a new Rome or new arena in life or, If you thinking about buying a house go talk to your fine friends or family or coworker or someone on the internet. Talk to somebody who is involved in real estate right. Talk to somebody with more direct experience than you. By doing this you gonna save yourself from so many errors just by having a single conversation.
Loneliness and a sense of feeling lost can in many ways be extremely painful and difficult to deal with at best. However, these feelings can also serve as a catalyst for change in our lives if we acknowledge them and act.
Above anything, cherish your mental well being and don’t underestimate its worth.
I hope, these things bring change in your life.